Attract love with clarity. Let’s get you super clear on what you desire in a relationship. First place to start is to journal aspects of what you want in your relationship. You can easily do this the old-fashioned way and write down what you want to have in your relationship or you can do it online.

My favorite place to go to online is trello.com. It’s completely free and this is a great way to get you organized.

Here are some questions to get you started.

1. How do you want to feel emotionally in the relationship?
   ex. happy, safe, secure, valued and appreciated.
2. How do you want to feel spiritually/energetically in your relationship?
   ex. connection, same belief system, family traditions, awakened, enlightened
3.  How do you want to physically feel in the relationship?
   ex. fit, exercise together, share fitness goals, bike rides, walks on the beach, physical location
4. How do you want to mentally feel in the relationship?
   ex. challenged intellectually, great conversation, learning together,
5. How do you want to see yourself socially with this person?
   ex. going to parties, great group of friends, relates well with your friends
6. How does the relationship work for you romantically?
   ex. respect, gifts, dates, flowers, dances

Journalling on these questions allows you to get super, super clear making it easier for the Universe to give you what you truly ordered.

Attract love with emotion. How you feel will attract in more of what you are feeling. Never underestimate the power of your emotions.

How are you going to feel when you attract love in your life?

What is important is what you’re writing down. So I did this years ago, when I was in a position where it was a very unhealthy relationship and I had had enough. So I said I don’t want this, right, and this was on a holiday that I specifically started this. I declared, “This is my last pathetic holiday!”

I desired more. So you can think of this, I mean really was quite like the romantic comedy but at the time didn’t feel like it. I wrote down exactly what I desired and how I wanted to feel. You can start with journalling on what you don’t want because that’s the easiest and what we’re going to do is turn it into what you desire.

Remember, you are a gift and you want to be respected and valued for who you are. If you don’t value yourself, you’re not going to attract in somebody who will value you. You have to value yourself first.

For example, “I want someone who respects me and can value the gift I am to this world.”

We will turn the above statement into an empowered question, “What would it take to have a lover who respects me and can value the gift I am to this world.” Follow this with an energetic clearing statement, completely delete, uncreate and destroy what is blocking my manifestation of a love partner.

Turn your don’t wants into your desires and then feel grateful and thankful that you have already attracted that into your reality.

So in that journal or in the google doc, write down the qualities that you admire in this person and be grateful and thankful for those qualities. Feel grateful and thankful for what you want to happen right now so we can attract that in.

Within this process we are raising your vibration to a higher level that it’s going to be a lot easier to attract in what you desire. We are shifting your thought pattern to thinking about what you don’t want to asking what would it take for what you do want.

How to attract love with visualization? Collect images that evoke your desired feelings that you journaled above. If you have magazines you can easily clip out anything from a magazine. But we’re kind of stepping away from paper these days and many things are online. You can find a lot more images that will evoke the feelings you desire online.

Unsplash.com is a great place to start. You can go for free images in many places, but unsplash is my favorite because they’re a little bit artsier and not so generic. Type in love and see what shows up and you can see if any of these images evoke feelings that you want to attract in. An image of a couple on the beach if you want to take walks on the beach together.

It’s not important how many images you collect, it could just be one image that really evokes a very strong feeling and that’s the image for you.

Silhouettes work great because they could possibly be you and somebody else on the beach or vice versa. Less detail in the face the better for visualization.

I used one image and one image only for my “attract love” trello board. The image I chose for the background is a couple together in the winter and she looks like she’s really safe secure and warm and he is giving her a huge hug.

This image meant a lot to me and I actually just used this image solely.

Trello is connected to Unsplash allowing you to easily upload images from Unsplash within Trello.

You’ve written out what you want and how you want to feel, now it is time to attract love by taking action.

How do you take action in manifesting? Easy!

Read what you have written on occasion (the more the better) and look at the images you hand picked. Find a way to feel the emotions you want to feel in the future, now.

Stop yourself from thinking negatively. For example, stop thinking, “Oh if only I had this or if only I had a partner, oh I just hate going out to dinner alone.”

Take action and think positively. So if you think, “I don’t want to go out to dinner alone. I really wish I had a date.” Take yourself out to a favorite restaurant. Dress up as if you’re going on a date. Order your favorite meal, your favorite salad. Whatever it is and just treat yourself romantically.

Embody what you are searching for…

If you are searching for romance bring that romance to yourself.

This is the most powerful part of the attraction process.

Even if you don’t look at what you’ve written or read it again for years down the road, but you change your perspective, how you think and start to love yourself, that’s going to attract in really fast what you desire.

Be the change…

Attract love with gratitude.

The feeling of wanting is a sign of lack. Lack is not abundance. In essence, we want to delete the word “want” really out of your vocabulary and turn it into desire and gratitude.

I am so grateful and thankful that I have attracted a beautiful loving and healthy relationship. I am so grateful and thankful for the love that I have in my life.

Think of the love that you have now and just focus on that to create more.

Where your focus goes, grows. So if you want more love in your life?

Be more love. Love yourself more. Be what you are searching for.

Attract love by stepping into the vibration of wholeness.

You are whole and complete.

If you are searching for someone to fill a void or feel a hole that you’re feeling inside of yourself, that will not attract in a healthy relationship.

What is going to attract in a healthy relationship, is the fact that you feel whole just as you are. You don’t need somebody to complete you.

Be what you seek. Love yourself and invite in activities that you enjoy. If you think, oh when I have this specific person, I will be doing this. Do those things now. Love yourself and connect to your wholeness.

If you need guidance on exactly how to step into the wholeness of you, check out my vibrational attunement package, Step into the Wholeness of You in 30 Days.

Your vibration is super important in attracting and change what you want to see in your life.

Everything that you’re seeing right now in your life, you have attracted that in. This is pretty powerful because that means you can attract in change very easily just by raising your vibration and putting yourself into the vibrational match of what you want to attract into your life.

I can’t wait to hear from you. What steps will you take to attract in love?

Please leave a comment below.

In high vibe love,